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The Introvert/Extrovert Dial in Our Noggin
What is your dial set at?
Have you ever been asked if you are an introvert or an extrovert? Have you ever asked anyone else that question? Our Western culture has been conditioned to divide everything into polarities. Everything comes down to either/or.
Whenever anyone asks me that question I reply with, “It depends.”
That throws a monkey wrench into the noggin of the one asking the question. It’s a yes or no question. There is no middle ground! You are either an introvert or an extrovert. You can’t be both or some combination thereof or something other than either of the two choices.
At least that is how we have been conditioned to think.
This may come as a surprise to those who did not know me when I was younger but I have been an extrovert for the better part of my life. There were times when I was an obnoxious extrovert and there were times when I was a successful, charismatic extrovert.
At the same time I was a very unsuccessful introvert.
You see, I eventually learned that inside our noggins there is a little dial. There are only two settings. You turn the dial in one direction and you are in introvert. Turn the dial in the other direction and you’re an extrovert. Not only are most of us unaware…
