That is one of my favorite words in any language. It’s all my ex-mother-in-law’s fault. She used to use that word/phrase all the time and every time she used it I couldn’t help but giggle. My daughter, too. Now when I am talking with my daughter and I use that word she automatically giggles. It’s funny to see.

But no dictionary, whether online or in print, that I have ever checked includes that word. I’ve always wanted to use it but I’ve never known the correct spelling. Now I do.

By the way, I thoroughly enjoyed your article. I’m a bit opposite of you. Instead of 80–20 I’m 20–80. Twenty percent for others and 80 percent for me. I’ve been trying to fix that. To that end I haven’t written or posted a single article or story today. Instead I’ve spent the day only responding to other people’s articles and stories. And you know what? It’s been a total blast. I may be approaching 30–70. I may not be nurse material yet but I’m getting better.