Thank you, R Tsambounieri, for bringing this up. You are absolutely correct. I don't know what I was thinking. I went to find her chart but I couldn't find it. Yes, she's a Libra but either her moon or her ascendant is water and now I can't remember which. I had done an astrological study of the relationships between the 3 of us (she, her mother, and me) but that was over 30 years ago. I was going on some vague memory of that and my memory is a bit scrambled on that. What I mostly remember is that there is a whole lot of water, air, and fire and very little earth. My "gals" had all the water and I had all the fire which can indicate that their water would put out my fire but that simply was not the case. My daughter was also the air that fed my fire. Thank you so much for pointing out my inaccuracy.